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Pleasure, pain, power, and play.
The Sexual Freedom Philosopher is where you explore desires, learn how to be a better lover, and master new BDSM skills…all while unraveling how BDSM is therapeutic.
I’m a “method journalist” who doesn’t just dip a toe into a topic. I immerse myself until I’ve embodied the knowledge. I become it.
I’ve spent nearly a decade living in the world of BDSM, not just as an observer but as a lifestyle dominatrix. I’ve led complex scenes in front of 400-person audiences, facilitated transformative experiences for couples, and founded The Garden of Earthly Delights: a multi-city community dedicated to exploring the edges of pleasure, pain, and personal growth through BDSM…all while earning badges.
You’re never going to get a standard "how-to" guide from me. Instead, you’ll get a mix of raw, unfiltered stories, interviews with leading experts, and thoughtful essays that blend education with experience.
You won’t just read it…you’ll feel it.
I’ll take you from private dungeons and play parties to public conversations about the intersection of BDSM and healing, all with curiosity and humour that keeps you reading.
I put a lot of time, effort, and research into anything I publish. I promise you that.
When you subscribe, you’ll gain access to:
Real-Life Insights: Candid stories and reflections from a journalist who became a Domme, revealing the lessons learned through play, pleasure, and the power of surrender.
Expert Interviews: Conversations with therapists, sex educators, renowned Dominatrices, BDSM research pioneers, and those who have transformed their own lives through kink can heal.
Practical Tips: From negotiation and consent to advanced BDSM techniques that will not only spice up your sex life but also build intimacy and trust in all your relationships.
A Community of Explorers: Connect with like-minded souls who are curious, open, and committed to exploring their own boundaries.
Ready to open the cellar door? Your journey begins here, and I’m honoured to walk beside you.
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